Long-distance relationships are hard, I know this because I’m currently in one. When you really like someone, especially when they’ve become your best friend, it is practically torture to go weeks or even months without seeing them.
So I’ve compiled a shortlist of some ways to make it easier, and hopefully a little better, while you and your S.O. are apart.
1. Take time to talk. This is probably the most important thing when it comes to relationships, period, but especially long-distance relationships where the other person isn’t involved in your day-to-day activities and community. Communicating on a regular basis, even making phone calls and FaceTime a routine, is helpful in making sure that you both feel like you’re involved in one another’s lives.
2. Learn to communicate effectively. My boyfriend is constantly making fun of how often I say this, but seriously it is so important! Learning to communicate clearly and effectively can be a total game-changer in any relationship, especially in a long-distance one where you don’t get to see each other often. This helps bridge the gap and prevent misunderstandings and miscommunication. Typically whenever my boyfriend and I get in a fight, it starts with us misunderstanding what the other person is saying or trying to say. But the more we learn how to communicate with one another (i.e. our types of humor, what offends us, how we use emojis, what makes us feel loved, etc.) the less mess we create for ourselves when texting and talking over the phone.
3. Always have a plan to see each other again. I’m terrible at this because I’m busy and running nonstop, but it’s one key to a healthy and happy long-distance relationship. This helps with having something to look forward to with your significant other and also gives you tangible evidence of commitment because your S.O. is ready and wanting to see you again.
Long-distance is tough, especially in our current situation, but it is possible. It doesn’t always work for everyone, but if you’re currently in one – we hope these tips will help the process! // #simpleadulting